Remembering the Happy Old Moments make me Smile #LetusKISS #MyfriendAlexa

 

I was in college , doing my graduation . Although it was too early to think of but somehow the journeys of the  fantasy  world  had started -where a handsome Prince comes running on a horse , looking for his princess . That princess in my fantasy world was none other than ME . But the Prince Charming was still unknown . Yes I started dreaming of marriage and that too   love marriage . Watching hero heroines in movies , enormously in love with each other ,and also watching few girls in my college who spent hours talking on phone and blushing , spending bucks on lipsticks and sometimes highlighting their eyes with gifted eyeshadows , their boyfriends waiting for them on bikes in the evening after college time , all this wrote in my mind that I also wanted Love . I would also go for love marriage . But neither in college nor in university there came anybody to pick me on bike , except my father coming occasionally to pick me up on his scooter . I had disclosed my love marriage wish to my parents too and they were also not narrow minded , But , where was the Love whom I wanted to marry ? Even after my education was complete , The Love luck didn’t arrive . Was it because I didn’t use lipsticks and  eyeshadows or my pure bad luck that nobody came to search for me playing mandolin in the sunflower farms , as in DDLJ ? Finally Dad started searching my LOVE LUCK  in the newspaper matrimonials . After lot of search , via many mediums , my marriage was settled – Arranged marriage . Was I to find love out of this Arranged marriage ?  And yes , after the engagement day ,  I could feel  a slow onset of Love in the air . I also felt special when He came to pick me from home . I also blushed when we dated for the first time  , hands trying to come closer and hold on but the stupid shyness posed  a barrier .  Huh ! But just then another  moment made me feel like  flying in the sky when he surprised me & gifted  me a box beautifully wrapped in the red sheet with hearts printed  on it and also a red rose along with it . Aww…that moment was so romantic . I wished he could bend too on his knees  !!!!! I opened the gift with  an adrenaline rush in my heart and Wow …It was a phone …..It was Nokia mobile phone ……and you know what – it was my first phone of my life …..

Hey !   I  was just remembering my happy old times and felt like  sharing  with you .  Those funny moments in the college , the romantic heart-beating moments with my future spouse or the first Gift I got from him –all these memories are so precious for me . These happy old moments are my asset . Well !  Just remembering our happy times can refresh us and make us feel happy , sometimes laugh too . Many times it happens that we remember our old times and smile even if we are just  sitting alone . Doesn’t it happen with you ? Yes it happens with all of us .

 

Life has become a  race today  , we are all hurriedly rushing  here and there . Life brings along smiles and sorrows together . May be the nature wants to keep a balance . Sometimes when something bad occurs in our life we start grieving , we start feeling stressed and sometimes we  blame even  the Supreme Power .  One little way to keep our lives  simple and happy can be to just remember the  happy old times . No doubt there may be  bad memories also but Let’s focus only on the heartwarming memories — which have the power to make us smile .

Remember the old times when you fell so many times while learning to ride a bicycle , when you used to fight with your siblings for a little piece of chocolate , when you bunked your classes in school , when you draped your Mom’s saree for the first time at the college farewell party , when you had crush on someone ,  when you had a funny meeting with  a matrimonial guy advised by your parents , when God blessed you with a little angel , when you laughed with your friends , when you shared hugs n kisses moments with your spouse or shared some exciting moments with your family at any wedding occasion .  Remember any of such happy old memories . This will help you just Stop from the rush of life and calm you – no matter what is going in your life right now .

The most beautiful things in life are not THINGS . They are happy old memories and moments . Just Sit , relax and remember the happy memories . Celebrate happy memories !

Celebrate Happy Memories ! Celebrate Life !

My writing theme for September is #LetusKISS – Let us keep it Simple and Significant . Life is not that complex or complicated . It is We only  who make it complicated . We just have to find ways to make it  Simple & Significant . We have to find ways to feel calm , and remembering the happy old moments  can certainly prove to be  very significant .

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I shared my happy old memories with you . Now it’s your turn . Don’t you love smiles on your face ? Yes ! Everybody does .  Ok then , Do  share some  of your happy old memories in the comments below .  Smile !!!!!!!!

Read my post 1 under the theme #LetusKISS

Read my post 2 under the theme #LetusKISS

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Monika

Hi, I am Monika, an educationist for the last 17 years and a mom to a daughter for the last 11 years . Give me a hot cup of masala tea with some snacks plus a laptop and I am happy ! My Blog is a mixed bag of my observations ,learnings and experiences . To me , life is love, life is helping & learning from each other. Life is not that complex -We just have to stop overthinking .

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52 Responses

  1. We all go through these experiences and different stages of life throws open different facets of our personality and we need to learn the art of embracing the changes and the progresses that come along with in life. But while doing so we leave a trail of past and these cozily resides in the lanes and by lanes of our memory bank, and only when we sit back in silence and reflect, we have those good memories to ignite us and make us feel better and we periodically need little bit of these stimulates to gravitate out of the mundane activities of daily life.
    You have written it very passionately and it has come straight from you heart, and it resonates with everyone of us.

  2. Monalisa Dey says:

    Loved ur beautiful love story. And happy that you still feel the same. I had a love marriage almost like the one u expected . Will try penning down my love story too

  3. Life must be enjoyed in its simplicity and no opportunity must be missed to garner experiences. It was wonderful reading about your love life. I’m glad your “loveship” got neatly “arranged” where it was meant to anchor. Such a heartfelt post! I feel I know you a step closer. happiness always!

  4. Shail says:

    Hi…its so nice to read your article. It send me back to my happy memories though we are just married for 3 years but the race of life has taken away those small moments which I miss the most. Thanks for reminding me of my moments.

  5. Shail says:

    Hi..I loved your article it took me back to my happy old memories though we are married for only 3 years still the race of life has taken away those small moments we shared. Your article reminded me of those moments.

  6. Dwelling on the past can take away from the present, so we don’t want to constantly live in our memories. But there’s value in more regularly connecting with the good moments—and the essence of those moments—that we thought we’d remember forever. Summiting a mountain, getting accepted into college, getting married to holding your baby for the first time—those moments. They’re the ones that are with you forever, but present with you rarely ever.

  7. aw! a wonderful article!!loved it #viddhreads #MyfriendAlexa

  8. Latha says:

    Those simple innocent love moments

  9. That really brought a smile to my face…and the part – of your father only coming to pick you up…that is really hilarious!! 🙂 But movie love is totally false isn’t it?

  10. Ila Varma says:

    Yes, it is indeed simple n signifant. #MyFriendAlexa #ilaenjoys #Blogchatter

  11. Tamanna says:

    This is such a beautiful story. I loved how you have captured the waiting for someone to come, playing mandolin for you and then how your Daddy came occasionally to pick you up. Reminded me of DDLJ. And then how found your SRK.
    Beautifully written.

  12. Dipika Singh says:

    Nice sweet memories and a wonderful love story.

  13. Priyal says:

    That’s really a sweet memories which will always be treasured for life

  14. Bikramjit says:

    A beautiful loving story, pulling back to the memories who read this, thanks

  15. awww love love love this one Monika, such a beautiful and mushy write-up, also I love the video you had shared on fb related to this post. Being married for 10 years now, I totally agree with the message, what you have conveyed in this post. Merely remembering those happy times, silly talks etc. brings us a truckload of memories and refresh our hearts and souls. Thanks for sharing your inmitate story with us.

  16. Puspanjalee says:

    What a bunch of beautiful memories!

  17. so sweet love story, well I agree with you on rat race happening everywhere around, glad I read your post. feeling like getting lost in my memories too 🙂

  18. Such a sweet and heartfelt post! Loved reading it

  19. Pranoti Muley says:

    WoW! Really very cutely described love and obviously long lasting memories to cherish upon 🙂

  20. Rashi Roy says:

    Such a happy read 🙂 Its always a joy to remember good old days!

  21. Aww! You two are adorable.. I can feel everything what you said in your post coz mine is love marriage. Total 7 years long and 3 years of marriage.

  22. I am all smiles as I reach the comment section. Indeed in this fast paced world, we hardly get the time to step back and relish our memories. I am so happy that you wrote this post. Best wishes to you both.

  23. Happy memories are indeed a joy forever. Our college dreams, that gentle glance with a smile from your beloved, the first time your girlfriend cooks something special just for you, these are all special moments. We need to perk ourselves on dull morning by recalling the times when we had great fun. Great post.

  24. I had gone to my old memories while reading yours. I also wanted to go for a love marriage because my parents had the love marriage. But no luck. And then I was arranged for a marriage. He used to come and pick me up from my exam centre at the college. I used to feel in another world.
    Oh, those were the days.

  25. Aww reading your love story brought smile on my face. You said such important thing in such simple way.
    #MyFriendAlexa #momlearningwithbaby #blogchatter

  26. Harjeet Kaur says:

    Memories that last a lifetime. We used to see the world through rose-tinted glasses at that age and that age was so good. Even I thot I wud be swept away by a prince on a white steed but landed up in an arranged marriage. #wordsmithkaurreads

  27. Aww such a cute memory. #sindhureads #myfriendalexa

  28. Simple sweet write up. You said it right life not complex and complicated. We make it so. Simple things can make us smile and be happy.

  29. Milan says:

    Such a beautiful love story. Best wishes to you both. Oh BTW even I dreamt of Shahrukh Khan like person coming my way but no luck.

  30. It’s always great to go back to old memories and yes falling on love is beautiful. #MyFriendAlexa

  31. Preeti says:

    You have made me nostalgic through this post. I agree with you that happy memories are timeless treasures. These memories give us strength in difficult times. These memories act as refuel for our bonds. These memories make our lives easier to live. Lovely post

  32. saba irfan says:

    nice memories. it seems you have enjoyed a lot of days back then.

  33. Alpana Deo says:

    Ohh.yes. those silly talks, fun moments, friendly fights are our true treasures. They make our life beautiful not the things.
    #MothersGurukulreads #Myfriendalexa

  34. I can feel your emotions of happiness and joy through your writing, as you were revisiting those old cherished memories… All our memories are truly treasures to be felt from time to time

  35. MeenalSonal says:

    Monika, your post lead me to all smiles. You are right that it’s not THINGS that is treasured but our memories. We keep precious things in bank locker and memories in heart locker.

    Cheers
    MeenalSonal from AuraOfThoughts
    #MyFriendAlexa #MeenalSonalReads

  36. Suchita Agarwal says:

    Let us kiss – love the name and concept of the theme. Your romance story was too cute!

  37. Prerna wahi says:

    Such a sweet heartfelt post. I enjoyed it. I feel it’s these special moments that become precious memories to last a lifetime!

  38. Neha Sharma says:

    Loved reading your post, Monika. That’s so true that in today’s fast paced life we have almost forgotten how to stay happy and live an uncomplicated life. Remembering old moments and memories definitely brings back the joy in life. Thanks for reminding us how precious our life is!

  39. This is such a sweet and feel-good post, Monica. Brought back all the lovely memories of those days. You have rightly said, let us enjoy the memories and cherish them to make our lives simple and happy.

    https://www.rohankachalia.com/2018/09/payback-part-4/

  40. Sashwata Roy says:

    Engrossing and nostalgic!

  41. Manas Mukul says:

    Beautifully summed up Monika…most beautiful things in life are not things. Totally agree. Keep the good work going.
    #MyFriendAlexa #ContemplationOfaJoker #Jokerophilia

  42. That’s a nice one Princess! Yes, we seldom get time (or at least that is the excuse) to sit back, relax and cherish the (g)old memories! Wish we do more often.

  43. Anks says:

    Such a happy post. We do forget to remember the small joys and forget about the things that made us happy in the past. These memories have the power to make us happy in the present too 🙂

  44. Shree Janani says:

    Ah! Beautiful 🙂

  45. Such a beautiful, heart-warming post 🙂

  46. Anchal says:

    Loved reading this. My first phone was also a Nokia 🙂

  47. Lovely post. It took me back to my good old days and made me smile. Thank you for sharing such a heartwarming post. Keep writing.
    #MyFriendAlexa #MayuraReads

  48. Disha says:

    Aw, that was a lovely and emotional read. First time moments are cherished for lifetime.

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