Soon after I started blogging , I came to know about Ebooks and I could find many bloggers who had self published their Ebooks . Although I was a newbie but imagining my name on the cover of a book excited me and the thought made a mark in my subconscious mind . The desire of publishing an Ebook was getting intensified and I was getting more and more curious about the what and how of self publishing an Ebook . Then came the BlogchatterA2Z carnival where every blogger was supposed to write daily in the month of April , starting with the alphabet of the day . A on 1st April , B on 2nd April and so on .Daily blogging was a challenge but I love when something challenges me ,because that is the best time to know your limits , push yourself to bring out the best out of you .I decided to go for it and registered for it. But till that time , I didn’t have any idea what would I blog about . I explored a lot of websites to get an idea about the theme on which I could blog daily . But no idea clicked my mind . I kept brainstorming and then my mind finalised to write on the aspects of a woman . I took a paper and started a rough draft of the topics about women from A to Z on which I would be writing . Deciding the topics was much more difficult than writing on those topics . It was all the more difficult when I reached Q , X , Y , Z . First I chose Q for Queen but after lot of research , I preferred to write Q for Queer Gender . Same way deciding of a topic from Z was so so difficult . The only word I could think initially was Zeal , but my mind didn’t settle on it , I surfed many sites to find the right word from Z which fitted well in my theme of a woman . Finally I googled about the urdu words and found Z for Zulmat . Ok , the topics were decided and then was to start the actual writing . Before the actual writing , I wanted to give my theme a name too . For that too I had to think deeply before I could find the suitable word Astitva , meaning existence . As I was planning to write on women , so I found this word Astitva very appropriate as my mind said that a woman still had to struggle to find the balance for her existence in life .
The A2Z carnival was to start in April and I managed to draft my A2M posts in the month of March only . When came the 1st of April , I published A for Abuse . After M , I had to really push myself to complete till Z . When I published my last post from Z , I felt so accomplished to have successfully finished the month long blogging challenge .
Now it was the time to work in the direction of Ebook . I simply had no idea how to go for it . But. Thanks to the #blogchatter community who really explained each and every little step involved and inspired us to set the ball rolling . It was exciting to make a book cover with my name on it and it felt proud to write ”about the author ‘ I.e. about myself . I got a foreword written for my book from one of the professors from Chandigarh and finally My Ebook was ready. I launched its book cover few days before the actual release of the book . My friends and relatives motivated me by their online and offline inspiring messages which helped me become more confident of my maiden Ebook . My Ebook was officially launched on 22nd May . Today it is 28th May and around 75 downloads have been done so far . Thanks to Almighty and all of you my dear friends who made this possible .
In one of my posts few months ago , I expressed my wish of turning to an author from just a blogger . And see , my wish has come true ! I feel so happy ! Yes , I have done it ! Thanks to BlogchatterA2Z for giving me the designation of an author .It really feels great . It was destined to proudly own this designation as I enter my forties .
The things I learned during my journey of becoming an author :–
1. Nothing comes easy in this world . Not even your own name . I really had to spend many nights to see my own name on the cover of a book .
2. I gained discipline in my writing .
3. When you start working for something with all your determination , success definitely follows you .
4. The journey blessed me with many friends who not only inspired me but helped me too in my writing or resolving my queries . The doctor blogger @doc2poet is a must mention here .
5. The journey of writing about women compelled me to research quite a lot and which enhanced my knowledge about the various crimes or stigmas the women go through .
6. I felt happy as I could give a message to the society through my Astitva that a woman has an individuality which should be respected . Hope my message spreads .
7. I felt happy to write not just about the crimes or the age-old customs but also tried to write about empowering a woman . A woman must follow her dreams , find her special qualities , invest in herself , empower herself and help empower other women too .
8. Reading other blogs broadened my vision .
9. We all have something to learn from each other . Everybody is unique .
10. Although it felt hectic But as the the month of April came to an end , it filled me with happiness and gratitude . I feel grateful that I decided to take part in the daily blogging challenge .
11. There may be many mistakes in my first Ebook but it is more about the hard work and thriving on the challenge .
12. Some friends ask me ” What did you gain by writing this Ebook ? ” By gain I think they mean monetary gain , but I think it’s not about money all the time . Satisfaction after my hard efforts is my priceless gain .
13. Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after successfully accomplishing a difficult task .
14. The days spent to become an author have added a value to my life .
15. I am happy that I could utilize my time effectively in creating a book on women empowerment , otherwise we can find many excuses like “time hi nahi hai ” before doing anything that requires even little extra effort .
16. Obstacles and fears would always be there but they should not stop you . The best way to overcome fear is to face it .
My first Ebook journey would always be memorable for me . One year ago , I started my blog with A for Alubhujia.Com and today , after an year from that day , I have become A for Author . Thanks A for Almighty .
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Happy Reading !